Instead of comparing yourself to others, compare yourself to where you were yesterday, or even six months ago. Look at your own journey. Have a set point to where you want to go, and then map out how you're going to get there. Google ideas, worksheets and look on Pinterest. I use Tumblr and Pinterest to gather ideas and inspiration. This can be quotes, photos and random musings.
What ever you do, don't forget that each person goes down their own path. What may be happening in one person's life isn't what is happening in another. Each person has their own path to follow and there is no right or wrong path. There are some better than others, but never a straight and narrow path to follow.
"Follow your arrow" -Kacey Musgraves